A reactivated older conversation wasn't bumped to the top / into Today until a
manual refresh when the viewing tab was backgrounded/unfocused: refreshSessionList
early-returns on document.hidden unless force=true, and the sidebar SSE closes on
blur — but the in-flight/pending coalescing only preserved the refresh REASON
string, dropping the opts (force/refreshActive). So a coalesced 'sessions_changed'
refresh lost its force flag and got skipped on a hidden tab. Now the pending
request preserves merged opts (force/refreshActive OR-merged), and a dedicated
resume-refresh path forces a catch-up when the sidebar regains focus, so
cross-device recency re-sorts land without a manual refresh.
Co-authored-by: rodboev <rodboev@users.noreply.github.com>
